Monday, July 2, 2012

RELIGION

                                RELIGION

Thats a big 8 letter word. If you thought using 4 letter words can create anger, violence, and fear, then imagine how an 8 letter word can bring 2X the anger, violence, and fear!

Now first of all, I have travelled the world to about 24 countries now and have been in the presence of many different religions. Some of my statements in this blog may be blanket statements on not specifically pertain to you or your beliefs.

As human beings we generally like to know the answers to everything. Everything needs a name or an explanation. We can not just let something be unknown. This is ever prevalent in what happens to us when we die. I can say with 100% guarantee that I have absolutely no idea what happens when we die other than being buried or burned to ashes. My thought process stops there, because I can physically see it. Now anyone that knows me knows that I have a very large imagination. I tend to lean towards the more scientific ideology that we are atoms and molecules. The same atoms and molecules that the stars, universe, and that flower next to the road swaying in the breeze are made of. So our physical being, I believe, goes back into our surroundings. As for the "soul" of the human I have no idea what happens. I don't even know if we have one. The "soul" could be yet another name or title given to something that we cannot see, but in an attempt to feel less inadequate as humans, that maybe exists or maybe does not. So, I really don't think about it. I have had two friends that momentarily died and came back to life, but neither of them had any great stories about a heaven or hell. I was rather disappointed because I was really interested in finding out if I should start planning for an afterlife.

Now how does religion fall into this topic of conversation? From the beginning of time almost all of the mainstream religions have all preached the same thing. Its actually quite simple and I can explain it in two parts. One part is when you're alive and the second part is when you die. Ready? Here it goes...

1. When you're alive do the right thing not the wrong thing.
2. When you die, IF you did the right thing you'll go to "heaven", but IF you did the wrong things then you'll go to "hell".

I have now successfully told the entire morals of religion in a few sentences. I didn't need an entire book to do so. I don't need to have different versions of the book or updates and revisions. Now think about this, If as humans we didn't need an answer for everything and really just concentrated on the present, then the explanation would become even shorter.

1. When you're alive do the right thing not the wrong thing.

Now critically think about this even more, and you will realize that you don't even need a book to tell you to do the right thing. We have highly specialized brain functions that allow you to understand that doing the right thing to yourself and others makes you, and others, happy. You don't need to answer to anyone else or be fearful of anyone else over your own personal actions. Take responsibility for your actions, and you only have yourself to blame. This is very difficult for humans. Many people want to thank a God for the good things in their lives as well as try to figure out the lesson from the bad things that their God gives them. I personally don't understand this thought process. I believe if you do the right things, then good will come to you. People are more likely to help you on your life journey if you are believed to be a good person. Makes sense right?

All in all, religion helped create order back in the day, and taught people to do the right thing out of fear that they could be struck dead at any given moment. Most people, no matter how bad their lives may seem at any given moment, would still rather be alive than dead They followed these holy books as a means of staying alive to enjoy their lives.

Now religions kill each other, create resentment towards each other, don't accept everyone equally, and worst of all they do this all under the idea that it is what that particular religions "God" wants. I will never understand how in a religion that you are born into and have no choice that you would willingly kill someone of the same religion but different sect if ordered to, or you would cast hate onto an individual for simply not loving the same gender as yourself. There are countless examples of where the  core beliefs of religion, of loving and accepting everyone as equals, has gone astray.

This brings me to the point that life is grand! Superb! Incredible! but that is only if you, yourself, and nobody but you, makes it that way! Like I stated above about what I believe happens to us, grasp every moment and every breath you have and make the best of it. Treat others with respect.Don't worry so much about what we don't know, but in turn make the best of what we DO know. Why worry about what may come tomorrow when we don't even know if we will be around for that moment?

I personally cannot partake in a large demonstration of hatred, intolerable differences, judgmental masses of people, all in the name of "doing what is right", but I can partake in LOVE. Love is one four letter word that we should all use. Love is my religion. Will you join me and help spread the love?


Saturday, April 28, 2012

WE are the world. WE can make a positive impact, TOGETHER!

As I continue to travel, and occasionally work, around the world I continue to realize how important communication is. In 2003, I pledged for Kappa Epsilon Theta Fraternity in Hawaii, and we were constantly drilled on how important communication is. I have spoken to many people that have hopes, dreams, and goals that they are going after. For some people those goals involve a certain dollar amount, or a certain material item that will bring them joy and happiness. Others I have met, just hope for a better life than the wood home they live in with one light bulb powered by a solar panel given to them by their King. All around the world, rich or poor, we all continue to work towards a better future for ourselves and our families. The only way to achieve those hopes, dreams, and goals is to communicate to those that will raise you up and help you achieve them.

I have endlessly been amazed by what happens when you let people know what you want to achieve. What most people don't realize though, is that every time you start to spread the word of what you want to do there will be 9 out of 10 people that will tell you that it can't be done. They will tell you that you're crazy. They will try to instill their own fears and faults into YOUR goals. They will say it's impossible to accomplish it, because they believe that about their own dreams. So, when you find that 1 person that believes in you, keep them close. These are the "1's" that you want to surround yourself with. They will help you become the person you want to be.

When I had my acting part on LOST I wanted to make shirts that said I <3 Dustin Watchman. Many people called me less than positive adjectives, but one lady that I worked with said that she knew a place that I could get them printed at a good price. With the "1" friends information the "I <3 Dustin Watchman" shirts were created. When I created this Blog, I had no idea how to parts of it. My friends from around the world, Julie, Karen, Isabel, Homer, and anyone I hope I didn't forget, believed in me, and taught me how to finish it. There are many other wild and crazy times that I have communicated my ideas to people and those "1's" have stepped up to the challenge and believed in helping me accomplish them.

The point is that communication is the key to success in whatever you are doing. YES! there will be far more people that think your crazy for attempting it, but you will also find those rare gems that may also think you're crazy, but they see the slight bit of logic and the huge potential of positiveness that may grow from your ideas.

In the end, I must say to you that your life is in your hands. You are the pilot. Communicate with others, play nicely, and let the good times roll!

Find your "1's" 
1 World. 1 Life. 1 Love.      

               

Saturday, March 3, 2012

113. Why is that a special number?

113 is a special number because on the first day announcing the opening of this site 113 people viewed it. Thats 113 people that took initiative to move forward in life. 113 people that went into the unknown to find out what this site is about. 113 people that may be leaders and tell a friend about the site if they think it would be beneficial to them as well. 113 people decided to further their education and knowledge, and possibly to gain a new and memorable experience. Overall, thats 113 people that did something NEW in life and didn't just stick with the same ol' routine. 113 people chose to LIVE rather than just exist.

My point is, step outside your comfort zones. Live life to its fullest. Learn something new. Do something nice to somebody today. Move forward in life. BE THE DIFFERENCE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THIS WORLD! It's up to us to motivate others and raise them up.

Now the question is...are you willing to be that individual to make the most of your life, or will you let life pass you by? The choice is yours, but I'm here to help in any way that I can.

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